How to Meet Women During The Day: From an ex Shy Guy

What’s up, guys? My name is Sean Russell, and seven years ago I met my wife by stopping her in the middle of the sidewalk while she walked down the streets of Budapest.

Well, actually, I walked beside her for a few blocks. Then we stopped. I got her number, and now she’s lying in our bed in the next room as I write this article. I never would have thought

Three years before that, I was a shy guy who never hit on a girl he didn’t know unless he was drunk.

I thought it was impossible, but boy, was I wrong.

The things that are possible when you learn how to meet women during the day are nothing short of magical. The things of fantasies I’ll let your imagination run wild.

And now, I’ll teach you how to do it.

how to meet women during the day

I want to start off by saying that the daytime is the absolute best place to meet women. Read that article to learn why.

Whether it’s on the street, at a cafe, or at the gym, meeting women during the day is easier than anywhere else for 1 reason: There’s no competition.

At bars & clubs, girls get approached by dozens of guys every night. Online, they get 20-30 messages a DAY. During the day…nothing.

You’d be the only one, and if you’re even a relatively normal guy, and she’s single, you have a good chance of getting her digits.

There are a few ways to meet women during the day.

the dayGame.com method

The Daygame.com method is a normal, sincere way of picking up women. But with a unique plan of action that makes the interaction smooth, takes out the need for good looks, and just plain works.

These guys put hours and hours of trial and error into approaching women on the street to create the perfect “blueprint” for picking up perfect 10s.

They are not models

They were once terrible with women

They are inspiring, to say the least

I have studied their methods, watched all their videos, and done their stuff myself, and I can say that it is absolutely the most effective way to meet girls during the day.

And I am going to break it down for you below.

Step 1: The Yad Stop

So allow me to introduce you to Daygame, a business run by Andy Yosha, Yad, and Tom Torero, among others.

They are all average-looking guys who were bad with women and dedicated their lives to getting better. They now pick up perfect 10’s on a daily basis and run boot camps all over the world, teaching men how to do the same.

They are living examples that, with practice, you can accomplish anything, and they truly inspire me.

So how do they meet women?

I’m about to tell you.

Yad is one of the creators of daygame.com.

I’d say he is the best at what he does and picks up handfuls of the most beautiful single women from around the world every day.

Here’s a picture of Yad.

Now I think Yad is a legend. He is an absolute man, and I love everything about his attitude and what he does. But Yad definitely doesn’t look like a dude who you would think pulls tons of women.

He’s just a regular-looking dude who decided he wanted to be great at something and went out and did it.

So throw all of your excuses away about how you don’t think you are handsome enough, or you’re ashamed of your height.

Yad is proof.

So what is the “Yad Stop?”

The Yad stop is a move that Yad created that is the ultimate way to open a girl during the day.

What does it do, and how does it work?

1) Stop the girl in her tracks so you can open her

A lot of guys will try to approach a girl on the street from the back or side. The problem is (attractive) women are used to people coming up on the street and trying to sell them something or give them a flyer this way.

These women will brush you off and keep walking, just like they do those advertisers.

2) You are stopping her as if you have to tell her she dropped something

This immediately shuts off her rejection response.

3) She has most likely never been stopped this way before.

You are showing her you are a man, you are confident, and you do what you want. This is extremely attractive.

How to do the yad stop

Essentially, you run a few feet past the girl, get in front of her, and turn, getting her attention and bringing her to a complete stop. The complete part is important.

This may sound creepy, but if executed correctly, it’s really not at all.

You’re not running in front of the girl and making her halt in negative emotion.

This is exactly what you are doing with the Yad stop.

It’s important not to run past the girl too close.

This will freak her out. You want to meet women, not scare the crap out of them.

It is also important to run about three steps past the girl and then turn slowly. If you run right in front of her and invade her personal space, you are going to freak her out.

Don’t make this any more difficult for yourself.

And no, you don’t need a cunning English accent for it to work.

Step 2: What to say

So you have just run up to a beautiful girl, pulled the perfect yad stop, and she is attentive. Now what do you say?

This is the most beautiful thing about the day game: you just have to be direct with your intentions.

This may sound crazy to you if you have ever read any pickup artist nonsense.

The truth is, in the day game, you have to be direct about your intentions and attraction, otherwise, it won’t work.

All you have to do is go up to a girl and tell her you think she looks really nice. That’s the big secret.

“Hey, I just saw you and I wanted to tell you I think you look really nice.”

How nice and easy does that sound? It’s just a nice thing to do.

You are paying a beautiful single woman a compliment, and no matter if she is interested or not one thing will happen.

She will thank you.

She won’t reject you, she will thank you. All you’ve done is pay her a compliment. She has no reason to reject you.

Step 3: What do you say next?

Now that you’ve got her attention, she’s stopped, and you’ve given her a nice compliment, you’ve just won half the battle.

You are talking to a beautiful girl. congratulations!

You could literally tell her you have no time to chat and would love to meet up sometime and go for the number. The odds are that you will get it.

But if you want to escalate the conversation, go on an instant date, and build rapport, read on.

So what should you say next in the conversation?

Should I ask her a question like Where are you from, or What is your name?

Essentially, as daygame.com says, and as I agree, you shouldn’t ask her questions. But instead, you should assume something about her.

A question is a dangerous game.

You: So where are you from?

Her: Oh I’m from Jersey.

You: Oh okay, cool, so did you go to school around there.

Her: yeah, I went to OCC.

You: Oh nice what’d you study?

Her: psychology

You: Oh ok, cool. Cool. Did you like it?

Her: Yeah, it was okay

You: nice..so..ummm…..

You can’t act smooth and display a method of attraction with all that going on in your head.

So you can assume something about here instead.

“I really like your look and style, you look like your from Sweden or something.”

What this does is open up a real interest in a girl and take all the pressure off her. When you are asking question after question, all the pressure is on her. With an assumption, you take the pressure off her and talk about something she really cares a lot about. HER.

When you start assuming things about her girls take a real interest because of either,

a) You’re wrong, and she will quickly come to her defense and tell you about where she’s really from

b) Your right, and she is impressed and will tell you whatever she tells you

This style of conversation is much smoother and should go something like this.

You: <yad stop> Excuse me, I literally just saw you from over there, and I just wanted to tell you that you look very nice.

Her: <cute laugh> oh well, thank you

You: I love your look and style, you look like you are from Sweden, you don’t see that much around here.

Her: Thank you, I am actually from Denmark, I am here studying abroad for the summer.

You: Denmark, wow, I have always wanted to take a trip there. I imagine it to be just a whole bunch of beautiful people walking around everywhere, not as you see here.

Her: <cute laughs> Yes it is very different, you should definitely go it is a beautiful country.

…………….

Not a single question needed to be asked in the introduction to that conversation.

It was natural, and it was beautiful.

Obviously, you can ask questions, and you will need to during the interaction, but the method of assumption stacking to build a solid rapport beforehand can work like a charm.

So after the Yad stop and compliment, you could:

a) literally say:

“I’ve actually got to meet someone in about 5 minutes, but I just had to tell you how nice you looked, let’s grab a coffee sometime soon,” and get her number.

You’ve done enough that she will likely give it to you. She may not, but if you approach 10 girls like this you are bound to get a few.

b) Use assumption stacking and build report:

With assumption stacking, you will not only impress her with your openness, but you will start to build attraction and report.

This will greatly increase your chances of getting a phone number or date.

Again, it’s a numbers game. There will still be rejections, but the more you approach the more success you will have.

Anything else?

Yep.

There are many places you can go from here.

This is the perfect base for starting a successful day game campaign, but there are many advanced techniques that you can learn.

But for that you need

1) Go check out daygame.com

They have beautiful videos and programs that can explain things way better than I ever could in an article.

2) Get out and start trying this stuff out

With what I’ve given you in his article you have enough information to

Get out and start actually picking hot women up during the day. You will master the basics and develop your own style.

No matter how much you read, and watch at daygame.com or anywhere else you will never develop the way those guys did without going out and doing it.

How not to meet women during the day

That said, there are a few ways NOT to hit on women. Especially during the day.

1) The pickup artist’s way

Pick-up artist websites and forums will have you believe that the best way to meet a woman during the day is to use tricks and gimmicks.

They teach men to use openers to random women like “Who lies more, men or women?” or ask women for advice about their friend’s girlfriend.

2) the normal, unplanned way

Getting closer.

“Hello, my name is Sean. You’re pretty want to go out sometime?”

The normal way can definitely work if the woman is attracted to you.

But it is not solid and relies on looks.

Where to Meet women: The 15 Best Places to Meet Single Women

Bonus time guys! Let me share with you my favorite spots to meet females.

1. Look for Specific Types of Events You Love

Trust me on this one: ditching those online dating sites for a bit and diving into real-world events you adore can be a game-changer. When you’re out there having fun, you’ll effortlessly bump into single women who dig the same things.

2. Art Classes/Groups

Ever tried painting? Even if you’re no Picasso, art classes are a gold mine to meet some awesome single women. Forget dating apps for a night and throw on an apron.

3. Co-Ed Sports Teams

From personal experience, sports aren’t just about sweating it out; it’s where friendships (and sometimes more) blossom. Kick a ball around and watch connections form.

4. Community Volunteer Events

Once, I picked up trash and ended up picking up a date too! It’s uncanny how many lovely single women you can meet while giving back.

5. Local/Small Concerts

The online dating world can’t replicate that electric feeling when you lock eyes with someone during your favorite song. Local gigs are where it’s at.

6. Local Social Gathering Groups

I joined a book club thinking I’d just read. Guess who met some incredible single women there? Yep, you could too.

7. Yoga Class

I won’t lie; yoga’s tough. But man, the views and the number of attractive women are totally worth every stretch.

8. Private Parties

Remember that awkward dance at Mike’s party? But also remember meeting that pretty girl? Parties, my friend.

9. Improv Nights

I once made a fool of myself at improv, and guess what? Met someone who laughed at my goof-ups. Single women and laughter? Sign me up.

10. Public Speaking Groups

I was a ball of nerves the first time. But the supportive crowd and the single women appreciating my bravery? Priceless.

11. Conversation Groups

Tired of typing “hey” on dating apps? Real conversations with real women are refreshing. Dive in.

12. Church

I’ve felt peace at church, and hey, sometimes that peace comes with meeting a lovely single woman who shares your faith.

13. Ladies Nights at Clubs and Bars

Old school? Maybe. Effective? Heck yeah. Ladies’ nights are like single women magnets.

14. Speed-Dating Events

Think of it as dating apps but in real life. Quick, fun, and full of potential.

15. Business Networking Events

I went for a job lead, stayed for the interesting chats with accomplished single women. You never know where the evening might lead!

My final thoughts

Take the three basic steps in this article and practice practice practice.

Soon you will start to develop new additions that work for you. The advanced stuff that Yad and Andy do on their site works for them because they developed it through natural practice.

But everyone is different and will branch off in their own ways.

So if the idea of picking up and scoring beautiful women every day of the week, where ever you go, sounds like something you would want to do, then get out and start working on your day game.

Like Yad and Andy, you could be an entirely different person in a year living the life you always wanted.

But it’s never gonna happen unless you start.