Today I watched one of those YouTube videos where influencers give makeovers to men so they can get more women. This guy was a 27-year-old male virgin. I was like, 27, HOLY SHIT?!
Now for the sake of my conscious, I do want you to lose your male virginity earlier. That’s why I have this killer article where I will teach you how to stop being a male virgin and how to hide it in the bedroom.
- Let go of the “The One” myth; seek connection and trust.
- Elevate your appearance; present your best self.
- Reevaluate friendships; foster new and old connections.
- Confront approach anxiety; interact with women daily.
how to stop being a male virgin
You never guessed it but even I was a male virgin once (and yes that’s a joke). I can guarantee you that your chances of losing your male virginity will skyrocket if you follow these six easy tips.
#1 Ditch One-Itis
The first thing you need to do is drop your case of One-itis. What is “One-itis?” Put simply, it’s the idea that there’s “The One” waiting out there for you and all you need to do is find her.
In fact, relationships are much more complicated than that — even the life-long love your grandparents had. Finding “The One” has a lot more to do with the work you do with her than it does with a largely mythical concept that “The Right One” is out there just waiting for you and all you have to do is turn over the right rock.
You might find “The One” and lose the V-card to her. However, most relationships are not made to last forever and that’s OK. Rather than setting the unattainable bar of her being “The One True and Perfect Love of Your Life,” start looking for someone you dig, respect, trust, and have a connection with.
That’s what’s important.
#2 Level Up Your Appearance Game
If you’re still sporting that high school look, it’s time for an overhaul. Think of it as leveling up in a video game but in real life.
Your appearance isn’t about impressing others but showcasing the best version of yourself. Just like you wouldn’t go to a job interview in pajamas, make sure you’re sending the right signals.
How to improve your appearance
Appearance extends to your living space. Again, you should represent yourself and who you are here, and if that means tons of Dungeons and Dragons models or comic book posters, that’s fine.
But make sure your place is neat and clean and that you’re presenting these things in an adult way; For example, posters absolutely, positively, need to be framed after high school.
#3 What’s Up With Your Friends?
No, I’m not about to attack your friends.
What I am going to do, however, is suggest that you do three things:
1) Evaluate your current friendships
What are they doing for you? What are they not doing for you? What are they adding and what are they taking away?
I’m not a fond of cutting people off unless they’re incredibly toxic. With that said, there’s something between cozying up to people who are a drag on your self-improvement and totally cutting them out. Maybe create a little distance for yourself?
2) Reconnect with old friends
We all have people that used to be in our lives we wish we were a little closer to today. Reach out to those people. If there’s one thing I’ve learned it’s that even the biggest disagreements can seriously lose significance in no time at all.
3) Reach out to new friends
Don’t look at going out as being ALL about meeting women. It can also be about meeting guys to hang out with. And who knows… the guy you get together with for a hike today could introduce you to the love of your life (or at least the next few months of it) next week.
Now put all this advice together: Get your new friends and old friends in a room together and tell them to bring their friends. Become the guy who knows how to throw a killer party and get out of the friend zone forever.
#4 Talk To Girls Every Day
One reason you’re still a virgin? It might be the case that you have a particularly aggressive form of approach anxiety. There’s only one cure for this: Get out there and talk to some women every day of your life.
Think about it: There are kinds of women around you. You see them walking down the street, in line at the grocery store, waiting for the bus, and about a dozen other places. Why not talk to them? You don’t have to get a number, though you might want to. Instead, focus on getting over your fear of talking to women.
Trust me when I tell you that the practice you get bantering with the cashier at the gas station is going to pay off when you’re out at the hottest club in town.
#5 Be Interesting
Sure, this is way easier said than done, right?
Maybe not: Maybe being interesting is about being interested in something. What are your passions? How much time do you make for them? What are the passions you’ve wanted to make time for that you never seem to be able to fit in?
Get excited about something, man. It’s going to make you seem exciting, no matter what it is. One of the things women love about men is their passion and drive. Get a little bit of each and you’re going to increase your stock on the sexual marketplace tenfold.
#6 Enough Theory, Time for Action!
Another thing I notice about a lot of our virgin clients? They’re experts at theory. They know it inside and out. And yet, they’re not out there making it happen for them.
Remember that all the theory in the world isn’t worth much of anything if you’re not putting it into practice. So put it into practice… starting right now.
That’s right: Before you close your laptop, read this again and find one thing you know you can go out and do right now. No excuses — you and I both know you can make this happen.
If you want more help with women, then head to Menprovement X and check out The Ultimate Dating Program. I don’t care where you are right now with women, we will teach you EVERYTHING you need to know – 100% guaranteed.
5 signs that show you are a virgin! 🧐
Okay, so now you know how to lose your male virginity and you got a SMOKING hot woman coming over tonight.
BUTT you haven’t actually told her you are still a male virgin. Oeps… Don’t worry bro I got you. Here are some common male virgin signs with tips on how to avoid them. 👇🏼
#1 Quick Orgasm
I recall the first time I had sexual intercourse. Let’s just say she almost called that guy from Guinness World Records.
When male virgins have their first sexual experience, the sensations are so new and intense that premature ejaculation might be on the horizon. It’s like tasting chocolate for the first time—you just can’t hold back. 🤷🏽♂️
Most women usually get this. So if you, my man, find yourself in a similar ‘premature ejaculation’ situation, remember that it’s quite a common tale among male virgins.
Try to take it slow. Reaaaaallly slow. The trick is to switch sex positions every time things are starting to heat up downstairs. You can also stop for a couple of seconds and please her with other forms of sexual activity like fingering or oral sex.
Though I wouldn’t recommend the last one since you probably will suck (pun intended)…
Also Read >>> How To Find A One Night Stand (Easy). 👉🏻👌🏻
#2 Too Much Focus on Oral Sex
Now, I’ve got a buddy who was a die-hard believer that oral sex was the main course when it came to bedroom antics.
Do you know why?
Because, like many male virgins, he thought it would buy him time and delay the grand finale. It’s like when I first learned to cook; I kept stirring the pot, thinking it’d stop the pasta from sticking. 🍝
It’s a rookie move, guys. And while oral pleasures are fantastic, male virgin territory often means you might be spending too much time down under.
Oral is fantastic, but remember, it’s just one part of the whole experience. Every male virgin needs to educate themself and strike a balance in the bedroom.
#3 You may bleed
Hear me out; I’m not trying to scare you. But yeah, I’ve heard stories.. Some male virgins might experience slight bleeding due to minor friction, especially if they’re a tad too enthusiastic or nervous.
Use a good quality lubricant, and remember: it’s a marathon, not a sprint. Pace yourself, cowboy.
#4 You just don’t know what to do
Everything feels like a complicated puzzle 🧩.
Which button to press? Which zipper to pull? Broooooo! If you are hovering around awkwardly or moving as if you’re trying to decode an alien spaceship, chances are she will immediately notice you are a male virgin.
Again, EDUCATE yourself, bro. This can easily be learned. A good place to start is by joining our private community where we teach everything about becoming a high-value man. Dating, sex, self-improvement.
You name it we’ve got it.
#5 You Don’t know what foreplay is
Last but not least, let’s talk foreplay. The appetizer before the main course (sexual intercourse). If you think foreplay is just a five-minute prelude, or worse, don’t consider it at all, you will definitely have that male virgin badge on.
The easiest way to fix this is by simply asking the girl what she likesThis will probably make casual sex even hotter since women are more likely to put in effort when you are truly pleasing them.
Long story short, being a male virgin is optional. Level up your physical appearance but more important: take action.
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