How To Manifest a Girlfriend Using The Law of Attraction (Updated: 2023)

How To Manifest a Girlfriend Using The Law of Attraction (Updated: 2023)

How To Manifest a Girlfriend Using The Law of Attraction (Updated: 2023)

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Do you want to know how to manifest a girlfriend?

I feel you.

And good news. It can absolutely be done.

The law of attraction is an energetic law of the universe. And it doesn’t give a fuck if you’re using it to attract money, crazy sex or to manifest a girlfriend. It just works. It has to. It’s a law.

However, if you are trying to use the law of attraction to get a specific girl you want, things may get a bit tricky, but I will explain that later.

In this article I am going to share 6 things you can do (step by step) to start manifesting the girl of your dreams.

Let’s get into it.

The law of attraction states that what you put out to the universe via your thoughts, beliefs and actions will be returned to you to create your reality.

The great writer, Ralph Waldo Emerson, once wrote that the ancestor of every action is a thought.

Our dominant thoughts form our attitudes and drive us to take major actions in life. So, our thoughts are critical to our success in life.

Manifestation techniques and positive visualization are based on these principles.

When it comes to dating and relationships, you need the right mindset to manifest women. You see, when you sit across from a pretty girl at a bar and assume, “She has a boyfriend,” or “If I approached her, she would shut me down” you are sabotaging yourself.

The right mindset stays positive and sees success before it even occurs.

Even if you’re wrong, you improved your abilities for the next time.

You can manifest your positive reality by starting with your thoughts. Everything we’re going to learn today is based around that. So, how do you use the law of attraction & your thought to manifest a girlfriend?

How to Manifest a Girlfriend in 6 Steps

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Here is how to use the law of attraction to get a girlfriend or manifest the women of your dreams.

And guys..If you want even more help with women after reading this, make sure to check out our premium HD video course on Menprovement X called The Ultimate Dating Program. Taught by expert coach John Cooper who teaches a new philosophy which uses energetic principles to make you the most attractive version of yourself who can talk to women anywhere, anytime – without approach anxiety, without the fear of rejection & regardless of your level of shyness. Boom.

Alright guys – let’s jump into manifesting a girlfriend with these 6 amazing practices.

1) Affirm Your New Reality

The first tip for how to manifest a girlfriend I want to give you is how to put yourself into the right energy state. You first need to become what you are trying to attract. Condition yourself to become what you want to be rather than what you currently are. So if you suck with girls it’s because your current identity is one of a guy who doesn’t get laid.

If you start to assume the new identity first, it will be easier to take action. The incongruence between who you are trying to be and who you feel you are will start to disappear.

Here are 2 most powerful steps I know that will help you to make the transition and manifest women effortlessly:

  • Go to YouTube and find a good list of affirmations of your new self.
  • Before you go to bed, play it out loud.
  • Try to actively listen to affirmations, by imagining and feeling how it would be like to be this new person. See how you would walk, talk, what kind of women you would interact with and how they would react to you.
  • Do it every night for at least one month

Your reality will change, whether you are trying to get a girlfriend or you are using the law of attraction to get laid. As you go about that process, you start to condition your mind into believing this is a part of who you are.

Listen to this, while imagining your future self.

Don’t get me wrong, you still have to take action and make this happen. The action from this place becomes much more effortless because it is in alignment with what you believe yourself to be.

2) Become What You Are Trying to Attract

Deepak Chopra says, “Instead of searching for The One, become The One.” Men and women alike get caught up in the concept of searching for a prototype in a partner.

That’s why lots of people look at dating sites like online shopping. You’re looking for surface-level features- a petite spinner blonde under 5’5 or a brunette with green eyes.

To manifest the women you want, go deeper and become your best self to attract your high-quality counterpart. Before you start seeking a girl who loves fitness and rocks abs, ask yourself, “Do I actually make my personal fitness a priority?”

Before you seek an intellectual female, ask yourself, “Do I partake in self-education?  Love is like a mirror for all of us. We attract the qualities we possess ourselves on a subconscious level, based on The Law of Attraction.

Challenge yourself to see why you attract certain people or even lose some in the process.

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Additionally, The Law of Attraction does not merely state that like attracts like. It states that we attract people who are on the same frequency. If you want to be with a woman who possesses unique feminine charms and qualities, harness the core of your masculinity.

It may sound old-fashioned for some of us, but when we seek relationships with male-female dynamics, we need to dive into our identity as a man or woman. Just tap into your masculine instincts- opening doors for her, pulling out her chair, putting your arm around her.

Leave yourself with the questions, “How can I attract an elegant woman by becoming my best self?” “What qualities do I naturally possess that women want?” and “Am I currently attracting the right females? Why or why not?”

Remember, actions speak louder than words. Acting upon your responses to these questions is a step in the right direction. Realize That You Don’t Need Anyone to Feel Complete. If you come from a frame of mind of, “how do I get a girlfriend”, there is a resistance there, cause you are acknowledging that that girl is not here right now. That resistance acts as a barrier.

When you see a person you really attracted to you start to behave in ways that make her run away from you. That’s why it is so important to be firmly established in your own frame, and be happy in your own life before you set out to attract a partner. If you live your life in your own movie, not as a cameo in someone else’s, you stop being at the effect of that person and start acting at the cause.

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3) Get Clear About What You Want

If you are practicing manifestation techniques to attract a woman (or multiple), you need to get specific about what you’re looking for. Especially when trying to manifest a girlfriend.

Sometimes people actually end up manifesting what they think they wanted, and then they realized they were wrong! It might be beneficial for you to spend some time being single through a dating detox, and use this time to assess what you really want in a woman.

Write a list of all of the traits you seek in your ideal female, but be realistic. The perfect woman doesn’t exist, but you can find the one that is right for you!

4) Take Action to Manifest Women

When learning how to manifest a girlfriend, you have to take action.

Once you’ve assessed what you’re looking for, it’s time to step out into the jungle. You won’t find what you’re looking for if you’re Netflixing and chilling on Friday night. You need to take action.

Fill your life with social activities, keep your eyes open for women of interest, and take your time in getting to know them. Start initiating the pursuit. Manifesting won’t work if you stay in a bubble and live in your comfort zone.

5) Make an Energy Shift

If you are practicing manifestation techniques to attract a woman (or multiple), you need to get specific about what you’re looking for.

Sometimes people actually end up manifesting what they think they wanted, and then they realized they were wrong! It might be beneficial for you to spend some time being single through a dating detox, and use this time to assess what you really want in a woman.

Write a list of all of the traits you seek in your ideal female, but be realistic. The perfect woman doesn’t exist, but you can find the one that is right for you!

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6) Let Go of an Attachment to a Specific Outcome

If you are practicing manifestation techniques to attract a woman (or multiple), you need to get specific about what you’re looking for.

Sometimes people actually end up manifesting what they think they wanted, and then they realized they were wrong! It might be beneficial for you to spend some time being single through a dating detox, and use this time to assess what you really want in a woman.

Write a list of all of the traits you seek in your ideal female, but be realistic. The perfect woman doesn’t exist, but you can find the one that is right for you!

In Conclusion

When manifesting your desires through these techniques, it’s important to detach after you develop your mindset and vision. Let go of stress and detach from results, but stay with positive self-expectancy. The woman of your dreams is right around the corner.

Thanks for reading guys! If you have any suggestions on how to manifest a girlfriend, then let us know in the comments below!

And if you want even more help with women after reading this, make sure to check out our premium HD video course on Menprovement X called The Ultimate Dating Program. Taught by expert coach John Cooper who teaches a new philosophy which uses energetic principles to make you the most attractive version of yourself who can talk to women anywhere, anytime – without approach anxiety, without the fear of rejection & regardless of your level of shyness. Guaranteed.

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16 thoughts on “How To Manifest a Girlfriend Using The Law of Attraction (Updated: 2023)”

  1. this is exactly what i have been doing all my life. i get what i want and people say i am lucky. in fact i knew all of these points already. and the most important part is to not worry about the results i have mastered it as well but the action part is very difficult it really sucks but the idea of having that thing is so great that you leave everything. i become lonely and enjoy myself.
    well, i have a question. i will put it up if i know it will be replied.

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  2. Hey Kot,
    but are we going to assume that the Law of Attraction is the only law that there is? It is obviously not the case. I am not saying the LoA does not work, on the contrary, my life is in the most awesome direction and I anticipate a brilliant future. Never felt more excited and thankful. BUT, there are other forces at work when trying to manifest a woman into our own life. Why ignore them? Why not even write about it in your article? We need to be realistic if the article is meant to help others.
    You cannot wish for snow living in the jungle. You cannot expect a woman to simply approach you and say “hey bro, have you lawofattracted me?”. The whole premise is “attracting”, not “others doing vague signals in order for you to pick up on them, but most of them being just a frivolous play anyway”. I do not know if i am getting my point across, english is not my first language. But an answer would be awesome.
    Best wishes,
    Victor

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    • Hi Kevin,

      I believe what Artur meant here was if you are trying to be confident, you have to act as if you had self-confidence. It might sound a little weird, but it works. What I do -for example-, when I feel a little off, I ask myself, what would someone who I look up to do?

      Hope that helps.

      Best wishes,
      Sara

      Reply
    • It means if you want to aatarct a bold woman then be bold .
      If you want wealth … Develope guts to handle wealth .

      Reply

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