The Absolute Best Place to Meet Women (It’s Not Where You Think) | Part 1

The Absolute Best Place to Meet Women (It’s Not Where You Think) | Part 1

The Absolute Best Place to Meet Women (It’s Not Where You Think) | Part 1

the best place to meet women

There’s a lot of misconceptions in the world when it comes to the best place to meet women.

Most guys grew up believing that bars or nightclubs are the best venues to attract and meet girls to sleep with. This couldn’t be farther from the truth.

The absolute best place to meet women is the street but during the day.

The best part is, hardly anyone does it, and you can use this to your advantage.

News Flash: Bars are one of the worst places to meet women.

Wait, what?

Women in bars are hard to pick up.

Yes, you can get easy lays in bars, from sub-par or desperate girls, but unless you are a professional athlete in the VIP, the 9’s and 10’s are not going to come easy.

But why is it so hard to meet beautiful women in bars?

1) They have their guards up

When a woman is hot, and in a bar, she knows she is going to get approached by countless amounts of guys throughout the night. Before she even steps foot in the bar/club she has her rejection shields up ready to deflect to 75% of guys who will come at her.

2) Easy Rejection

Like I just mentioned above, a hot woman is ready to reject over and over at the bar. The odds are she has been hit on by 5 other guys with the same line you are trying to use in the past hour. Rejection is easy.

Women in bars just love to reject guys.

You even find ugly girls start to reject guys if they have been hit on a few times in a night, they become mad with power.

Forget about that shit.

3) Competition

There are 100 other guys at the club with the same frame of mind that you have, thinking they are going to get the same 5 girls that you want.

You have a lot of competition in the clubs and at bars. Every single guy in the place wants to get laid and is trying to figure out the best way to do it.

There’s just no need to put yourself in such a highly competitive state for women.

4) You have to use lines and “routines”

Well, you don’t have to use a line or pick up artist “routines” in bars or clubs, but the fact is that most people do, and because of the loud music and competition you’re pretty much forced to.

So why is the daytime the best place to meet women?

1) Your venue is the world

When you are practicing day game your venue is the world.

Women are everywhere. Look around. You will have 100’s of chances to approach in a single day just walking around town.

You can be approaching even when you just run down to the shop to buy a gallon of milk.

2) Women don’t have their rejection shields on

Women don’t have the rejection shield up while they are walking around day to day. They have no reason to. Men hardly ever approach women during the day.

You need to use this to your advantage.

3) Women fantasize about meeting their dream man during the day

It’s every woman’s dream to be swept off their feet by “prince charming”, while at the library or in the park.

Women want that special how you met story, like “we were waiting in line at Barnes and Noble and had the same book.” Not, “he bought me three tequila shots at shenanigans and we had sex in the bathroom.”

Make their dreams become a reality. Be that prince charming!

4) No special lines, routines, or tricks

The methodology of picking up women on the streets in the daytime is simple, and it works.

I will give all that and more below.

5) There’s no competition

It’s simple. Men do not approach women during the day. It’s hardly ever seen.

Most men nowadays are too filled with approach anxiety and don’t even know how to say hi to a girl because of porn and other issues.

Just do the math.

There are 100’s of girls walking around the streets during the day, and maybe 5% of men actually approaching them.


There are probably 20 worthwhile girls at the club, and maybe 80% of men are approaching them.

Which odds would you take?

Stop killing yourself in the bars/clubs and start doing yourself some favors by looking for the available women in the right place.

So how do I meet these women during the day?

Find all that and more in Part 2: How to pick up women during the day

1) Step by step method of approaching and picking up women on the street that just plain works.

– No tricks or gimmicks

– A straightforward explanation, with videos

– Plus, a link to the newbies guides to picking up girls. How to go from too shy to say hello to competent guy who can talk to women in 3 weeks.

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13 thoughts on “The Absolute Best Place to Meet Women (It’s Not Where You Think) | Part 1”

  1. I have been approaching girls a lot during the day since we last talked, but my approach seems to be my downfall.
    I haven’t had much luck but I will try this.

  2. Really?
    Where do you get this stuff???
    Most women hate men and would just as soon shoot them down in a library as the would in a bar.
    This is not a wrong attitude…THIS IS FACT!!!

  3. Nightclubs and bars are disadvantageous not because of the competition. In fact, people come to clubs in order to get drunk and dance.Even if you are super hot, everyone in the club is too busy in their surreal worlds to recognize you.
    I picked up my ex girlfriend on a street. Plus, she was living in my district. Very convinient to date every day!

  4. Stupid. Women on the street? Most will be married if ya have to ask to see their hands you lose. The rest will say they have boy friends or will actually have a boyfriend or girlfriend. Besides, I hate it when a stranger bothers me when I am out doing stuff. This would never work. They would be confused at first then just frustrated unless you are rich and famous. Not one or the other. Rich and famous only. Good luck suckers. Women are harder to date than ever in the history of mankind. This is a plain fact.

    • Hi Kori,

      Everybody has different priorities when it comes to meeting women – for example, I know my husband (who is Sean, the founder of this website) from the streets of Budapest. He came to me and said he liked my earrings. I am not saying it was “love at first sight”, but we got to know each other, and this was 6 years ago.

      Best luck to you!

      Sara Russell

  5. I Think unfortunately Men are much more than the women on the world. I hope one day they get born more and more females Then women will understand a lot more than now….


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