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When I was in primary school we had a sleepover with all the boys before we went off to high school.
There was this one guy in our classroom who had a gigantic barn in the middle of nowhere so he decided to throw a sleepover.
Of course, we didn’t sleep all night.
Instead, we played video games until 4 a.m. When we had finished the entire Call Of Duty Modern Warfare campaign, we got bored so we decided to watch some television.
Without even discussing it, we immediately zapped to one of those shows where they desperately try to sell phone sex which is just $5.00 per minute.
After watching for like 10 minutes, my friend Luuk had the great idea to call the sex line.
He put on his best masculine voice (which didn’t sound better than a dying cat, to be honest) and said;
The woman then responded,
At this point, we all laughed so hard that most of us peed our pants.
Sexting is as old as texting and it has evolved recently. You know what I am talking about – AI Sexting.
This AI Sexting blogging guide will cover everything about AI sexting. Including:
What is AI sexting?
AI sexting is when a computer program pretends to be a human and sends text messages that are flirty or sexual. It uses special technology to understand and respond to messages in a way that seems human. People might use AI sexting for fun, learning, or research.
How Does AI Sexting Work?
It uses ChatGPT.
That’s it for today – I hope you liked this article.
Just kidding… Or actually, I am not.
You see, almost every AI tool runs on Open AI – the company behind ChatGPT.
When I first heard this, my jaw literally dropped on the table. The biggest, baddest AI companies with hundreds of thousands of users like;
are all dependent on Open AI.
I have spoken to four owners of the current biggest AI sexting tools like Dream GF AI, Candy AI, Muah AI, and SpicyChat and they all told me that their AI sexting app is built on top of Open AI.
Okay, so Open AI is the engine of AI sexting but how does it actually work?
AI sexting works by using a computer program, like ChatGPT, to have flirty or sexual text conversations.
Here’s how it works in simple steps:
- You send a message to the AI.
- The AI uses special technology to understand what you said.
- The AI thinks about the best way to respond, just like a human would.
- The AI sends you a message back that is flirty or sexual.
The AI uses something called “natural language processing“ to understand and respond to messages. This is like teaching the AI to understand human language.
The AI also uses “machine learning“ to get better at responding over time. It’s like the AI is learning from experience, just like a human does.
6 Reasons You Should Try AI Sexting apps
So why should you care about AI sexting? You might have a boyfriend, girlfriend, or wife. Maybe even multiple…
It doesn’t matter, to be honest.
AI sexting can be beneficial for men and women, young and old and it is not as bad as you think.
Here is why. 👇🏼
#1 Explore Your Fetishes and Fantasy Safely
I once dated a woman who would get super turned on by having sex in public.
From H&M to her uncle’s birthday party – nothing was too crazy for her.
Now when I had a fresh girlfriend who was a bit more girly and younger than my ex, just me bringing up the suggestion of sex in public terrified her.
So the gentlemen I am, I decided to drop it.
It was something that has always been badgering me since I really liked it.
Statista did a survey among Polish adults and discovered that the most common sexual fantasies are:
- Having a threesome
- Sex in public
- Using sex toys
- Dominating your partner in bed
So can you blame me? I don’t think so.
Now here’s the kicker: I am 100% sure you have some crazy fetish or fantasy you are slightly ashamed of but would LOVE to try.
With AI sexting, you can.
Do you want to have sex on the Eiffel Tower while eating a croissant? You can.
Do you want to have a romantic date on the moon while in just your underwear? You can.
Nothing is too crazy or too wild.
#2 Improve Your Sexting Skills
This is another big reason AI sexting can be ultra beneficial.
With the launch of ChatGPT 4 AI sexting tools have gotten to the point where they are almost indistinguishable from humans.
There are AI apps (like Slutbot for example) specifically designed to train you in sexting.
AI sexting apps like Slutbot will explain to you step-by-step how sexting works and how you can try it.
It also gives you feedback and helps you out whenever you are stuck.
I’ll even argue the point that using an AI app like Slutbot can make you a better lover since it is so applicable in real life.
#3 Learn About Your Desires
So what do you actually like?
Chances are, you don’t know the answer. You might be gay, or lesbian.
You might like rough dominating sex or gentle passionate lovemaking.
A lot of people don’t know what they truly desire in the bedroom because they’re either too afraid to explore or simply too inexperienced to discover it.
You might learn a thing or two about yourself with AI sexting.
#4 Convenience and Accessibility
Now calling the sex line from the comfort of your couch is what I call convenient, but it still requires some sort of effort.
Not to mention your roommate starts asking questions about who you are talking to at 2:30 on a Monday.
AI sexting allows you to get into sexting whenever, wherever, however, you want. An AI doesn’t need to eat, sleep, pay taxes… Heck, it doesn’t even need to go to the bathroom.
You can enjoy sexting whenever it suits you.
#5 No Judgement or Shame
For a long time, I had this weird fetish of getting Frisky on the Eiffel Tower and I didn’t want to tell anyone because people would probably bring me to a psychiatrist.
When you’re texting with an AI, you don’t have to worry about being judged or feeling embarrassed.
It’s just you and the computer, so you can be yourself and say whatever you want without feeling shy or worried about what someone else might think.
It’s a safe space where you can express yourself freely.
#6 Fun and Entertainment
Sexting with a computer girlfriend can be a lot of fun.
It’s like having a chat with a boy/girlfriend who’s always there for you.
You’ll be surprised how funny AI can be.
How Safe Is AI Sexting?
Good question.
When I think about AI the first thing that pops into my mind is the scene from Terminator.
You know, when Skynet steals all the data and takes over the world.
Luckily, we haven’t reached that point yet.
The Morality of AI Sexting
How ethical AI sexting is can be debated. A lot of people will say it is dangerous and should be banned.
On the other side, we have people that are saying it is just like OnlyFans.
The Ethical Side
Let me ask you this question: Have you ever bought someone’s OnlyFans?
Yes?
Now when you talked to that person, do you really think he/she was the person who replied back? It’s most likely some random dude in India getting paid $4.00 p/h to talk to you.
The New York Post interviewed an OnlyFans model in which she literally said;
“You might have five different people working your account pretending to be you,”
I also found this Reddit post about a guy explaining how he is getting paid for sexting with horny guys and pretending to be the OnlyFans model. 👇🏼
Now if I look at it from this angle I would say that AI sexting is more ethical than OnlyFans.
At least you are 100% sure you are talking to a computer and not getting lied to.
Another thing we need to mention is simply because you can.
The technology is here and instead of it getting sucked up by big corporations it’s better to have it uncensored and available.
Let me give you an example. The other day I was talking to ChatGPT and I asked it;
Although this joke is kinda funny, as a Christian I can imagine people will feel offended by this. Let’s try something else.
You see, corporations are pushing their own agenda forward of what they think is ethical and correct.
It might be better to either ban AI from the planet or give us the uncensored power of AI sexchats.
The Not So Ethical Side
It ain’t all sunshine and rainbows. There are some serious ethical concerns regarding AI sexbots.
Just like most AI sex chatbots, Candy AI uses Discord to announce updates, help their customers, and share general information.
When I was writing my Candy AI review, I took the liberty to join their channel to see how engaged everyone was.
To my surprise, there were a lot of people posting stories of their interactions with the AI in the Discord channel.
So what’s wrong with that?
Nothing in particular – but there were a lot of guys who were talking in such a way that they actually believed the AI was their girlfriend.
Now I respect everyone until they prove me wrong.
But People, especially young men can be influenced more easily.
And if you reach the point where you think an AI bot is actually having sex with you, you have gone too far…
I also found this message from Moxxie06. 👇🏼
There is a growing loneliness among men.
Statista even backs this up.
They released a mind-blowing statistic that shows the percentage of lonely adults by country.
Back in the old days, you actually needed to go out and hit on a woman. Right now, you can talk, flirt sext with an AI from the comforts of your couch.
This “easy” solution might make more and more men resilient in putting themselves out there and actually scoring a girlfriend…
Just the thought of this is making me sick but people are actually using AI to create child pornography.
Georgi Dimitrov, founder of DreamGF AI states;
“We don’t leave the people to write exactly what they want … because you’re going to get a lot of celebrities … and children … this is something that we don’t want to leave in the hands of the user.”
In one of my previous articles about AI porn, I briefly mentioned how some very dark AI apps like Getimg AI allow you to create child porn.
Then there is also the danger of AI DeepFakes, but that’s a story for another time.
Your Privacy and AI Sexting
Whenever I talk to friends or family about a new cool AI girlfriend app I discover the first thing they usually ask is:
“Is it safe?”
or,
“What happens to my data?”
Is AI Sexting Legal?
Yes, AI Sexting is completely legal.
There are no rules that limit you from sending specific sexting messages whatsoever. Pamela Koslym business attorney in Los Angeles, said;
“You can discuss anything you want”
This includes sending pictures, voice messages, and calling.
Now it is important to note that AI sexting is fairly new.
Individual countries or local governments might make regulations on AI without you knowing it so it’s good to always do your own research on topics like these.
What Happens To My Data?
This question is a bit more complicated.
On one side, we know that companies like DreamGF AI use data to improve the app. For example, in the “your fantasy fetish” section, they track exactly what users are looking for.
If enough people are looking for something like step-mom they add it to the app.
If we look at it this way, it’s a win-win situation since you get to sext with your favorite AI characters and they get happy customers.
In the FAQ section, DreamGF says
“AI dating apps like DreamGF understand the importance of maintaining user privacy and security. We employ robust security measures to safeguard user data and personal information.
With strict privacy protocols in place, users can feel confident that their information is protected, fostering a safe and secure environment for exploring new connections.”
It is not specifically saying that they won’t sell your data to third-partyies so that’s kind of scary to me.
If we look at SpicyChat AI’s privacy policy, they even state that they may share your personal information with business partners to offer you promotions.
Most software companies work this way so it isn’t out of line though.
Is AI Sexting Anonymous?
For the most part, yes.
Most AI girlfriend apps require you to make an account and sign in with your email. This means that the company has your email and your name.
But you asked me if you were anonymous, so unless you create a new email and use a fake name you are not 100% anonymous.
And are my text messages anonymous?
Yes, your text messages are anonymous. Most NSFW chatbot apps like SpicyChat AI, Candy AI, and DreamGF AI have protective measures.
Muah AI even has end-to-end encryption.
This means that only you and the AI on the other end can read what’s being sent. No one else, not even the company running the app, can see the messages.
It’s like having a conversation where the words turn invisible to everyone except the person you’re talking to.
End-to-end encryption works by scrambling your messages into a code as they leave your device.
The only place they can be unscrambled and read as normal text is on the recipient’s device—in this case, the AI’s system.
So, even if someone intercepted your messages while they were on their way to the AI robot, they’d just see a bunch of gibberish.
- Learn More >>> Is Candy AI Safe?
- Learn More >>> Is Muah AI Safe?
- Learn More >>> Is Character AI Safe?
Popular AI Sexting Platforms
Generative artificial intelligence platforms that allow sexting are popping up extremely fast.
Some are good, some are bad.
I’ve tested more than 20 so far and these are the absolute best AI sexting tools.
By a landslide.
- Learn More >>> The Popularity of AI Girlfriend Apps
- Learn More >>> The Popularity of AI Sexbots
Candy AI is my all-time favorite AI sexting app. It offers a very realistic sexting experience that allows AI role playing, voice messages and even sending nudes.
What sets Candy AI apart is its unique personality. For example, this is a text conversation with Bianca, one of the AI models who’s an influencer.
As you can see, Bianca likes to be submissive. If you talk to someone like Naomi (who’s bratty) you’ll notice the responses are more... bitchy.
Candy AI uses “*” to express body language and context.
This allows you to go really deep into your sexting conversation.
Right now you can choose from more than 17 unique AI models to sext with.
If that somehow doesn’t fit your needs, you can customize your own AI character from top to bottom.
#2 SpicyChat AI - Best Roleplay Sexting
Have you ever heard of Character AI? Of course you have, it's gained massive popularity over the last year.
SpicyChat AI is by far my favorite C.AI alternative.
It gives hyper-realistic sexting responses with blue text that would express a specific scenario or body language.
Whenever you start a conversation the AI will give you a brief introduction.
Here is the introduction message you get when you start a chat with Daenerys Targaryen. 👇🏼
You can simply reply to the message however you like.
You can then roleplay the scenario and sexualize it however you want.
There are thousands of AI characters to choose from. Both realistic, anime, fantasy, celebrities, and even replicas of movies like Hermione Granger.
As you can see SpicyChat is a realistic blend of AI roleplay and AI sexting, making it a unique experience.
Another big win is that it is 100% free to use and doesn’t even require you to make an account.
Just like Crushon AI and PepHop AI (Spicy Chat's competitors), you have limited messages without an account.
But I think it's great for folks just wanting to try it out.
#3 Dream GF AI - Best Customization
Last but certainly not least is DreamGF AI. You’ve probably heard about DreamGF since they are the most popular ones.
In an interview with Sifted, Georgi (the founder of DreamGF) stated that he’s making more than $100k a month.
And for good reason.
DreamGF has by far the best customization features.
They also have a library with more than 80.000 AI models to choose from. Another cool thing about DreamGF is their “AI Fictional” functionality.
This allows you to sext with more than 27 movie characters.
Here is an example of me sexting with Harly Quinn from Suicide Squad.
The sexting messages of DreamGF are a bit shorter than the ones from Candy AI and SpicyChat AI. But it's a fantastic alternative that packs a punch.
It feels just like you are sexting to a real human.
If you want to learn more than check out my Dream girlfriend AI guide.
Tips for a Great AI Sexting Experience
AI sex chat is pretty straightforward - you send a message and get a response. If you apply this technique you’ll most likely have a good AI sexting experience.
But if you want to change that “good” into a “great” you need to follow these the following tips.
#1 The Perfect Opening message
Think of your first message to an AI as the first move in a game of chess. It's super important because it sets the stage for everything that comes after.
If you start off strong, the AI, which often uses ChatGPT (the brain behind the AI), will catch on to what you're into. It's like telling the AI, "This is what I like and what we are about to do."
Here's a simple example;
I want you to be submissive and obsessed with me for the entire conversation.
So, if you're into something specific or have a cool (dirty) fantasy, make sure to drop hints about it in your first message. This way, the AI knows what direction to take the chat.
#2 Get Specific with Your Scenarios
AI sexting apps like SpicyChat allow you to use “*” to give context to your messages. Use this to your advantage!
Mixing your messages with actions you are taking will not only make the sexting experience more realistic.
The AI will better understand what’s happening and you’ll get much better responses.
#3 Use Descriptive Language
Even if you are not into that kind of stuff, it’s a great movie to learn more about females.
My ex was absolutely OBSESSED with Fifty Shades of Grey. She watched it so many times until she reached the point where I caught her parroting the main character's script.
So why did she love it so much?
One word - detail.
Fifty Shades of Grey is full of dirty details that women can’t get enough of. Let me ask you something: what pops into your mind if you read a line like this;
It immediately paints a picture in your head right?
If the author had said;
“I put my finger inside her vagina”
it would have been less powerful than,
“I insert my thumb inside her and circle it around and around, taking particular care to stroke the front wall of her vagina.”
That’s the power of being descriptive.
The same applies to AI sexting, the more descriptive you are, the better you paint a picture in the AI’s head and therefore, the better responses you get.
#4 Give Feedback to the AI
This one is such an underrated tip, I’ve not seen this on the internet.
Not even once.
You see, most AI sexting apps have some kind of feedback feature.
Candy AI allows you to put a 👍🏻or 👎🏼 after each response.
This will not only help the developers improve the AI but also show the AI you like (or don’t like) a certain response.
And even if you use an AI sexting program like DreamGF (which doesn’t have this function) you can simply tell the AI if you like a response or not.
My AI Sexting Experiment
I wanted to share one of my best AI sexting experiences with you. This is from a conversation with Naomi, on Candy AI. It went pretty wild.
The conversation went on for a while like this. I think you have a pretty clear understanding of how detailed and realistic AI sexting can be.
The Future of AI Sexting
AI is only just in its infancy.
There are so many things that can be improved, added, and developed that it would deserve an entire article of its own.
So let’s keep it to the point - these are some of the AI sexting developments that will be developed in the short term.
AI Porn
Starting with AI porn. AI porn actually already exists. DreamGF AI has an entire section dedicated to this. 👇🏼
You push a button and BAM - AI-generated porn. The big advantage of this is that you can make your wildest fantasies and fetishes come to life.
I know that DreamGF AI is investing heavily in the development of AI porn so we can definitely expect some great improvements with the release of the newest ChatGPT.
AI Videos
That brings me to the next point - AI porn videos!
Or AI videos in general.
AI sexting apps like Muah AI already have a calling feature.
It allows you to have very realistic phone calls with AI.
AI companion apps like Kupid AI also offer video responses but to be honest, it is not kinda trash.
The body stays static and you only see the face moving. I’ll even argue the point that it comes closer to a picture with a voice message than an actual video.
Muah AI is experimenting with AI video responses as well and I even heard rumors about possible AI FaceTiming.
This would be a massive breakthrough for the industry since you can easily switch between regular AI sexting, receiving nudes, and video calling.
The next step would be AI porn videos.
“AI porn videos are considered the holy grail of generative AI platforms”
Georgi Dimitrov, founder & CEO DreamGF AI
But as I previously mentioned, we are not there yet… First, regular AI videos need to improve a lot.
AI OnlyFans
So the other day I was reading this story about Caryn Marjorie, a Snapchat influencer with almost 2 million followers.
You see, Carie thought it was a good idea to clone herself by making an AI that can interact with her fans.
She was the first content creator to make an AI of herself and already made a huge profit upon launch.
Not long after, more influencers started to create AIs of themselves.
Even famous porn stars like Riley Reid recently launched their own AI called Clona AI.
In the future, we can expect more and more porn stars, and OnlyFans models to replicate themselves to launch their own AI’s users can sext with.
"There’s these models that have massive fan bases … for us to be able to create the AI version of Star X – so now she can point her fans to this AI version of herself, and they can interact with her right now … that’s probably our big step going forward.”
Dillon, CoCEO of DreamGF AI
My Final Words On AI Sexting
AI sexting is here whether you like it or not. It has a ton of benefits like fulfilling your crazy fetishes you can not share with your partner.
It can also teach you how to sext and what responses you might get.
On the flip side, privacy is a huge concern.
Always look in the FAQ and search for their stand on end-to-end encryption.
If they don’t there are chances that your messages are being read by someone else…
Anyways, AI sexchat is very new so whether it’s a good thing or not, we can only tell with time…