How to Get Your Girlfriend Horny in Minutes

How to Get Your Girlfriend Horny in Minutes

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I once found myself in a situation where every touch was electric, every look was sizzling. Trust me, you know that feeling. Yet, it’s not always easy to recreate, right? 

So, if you’re scratching your head, wondering how to get your girlfriend horny, you’re in the right place. Read into this guide; I’m about to reveal the straightforward secrets that worked wonders for me.

key takeaways

  • Trust and comfort: The bedrock of getting her in the mood. 😏
  • Subtle touches and whispers ignite that fiery sexual tension. 🔥
  • Reading her signals is crucial; never misinterpret or push. ❌

Step-by-Step Instructions for getting your girlfriend horny

horny girlfriend

Ah, the good ol’ days when I first tried these methods… Man, let’s just say I made some mistakes but also learned a lot. So, I’ve honed these tactics to perfection for you:

  • #1 Get cozy and close 🛋️
  • #2 Capture her curiosity 🧠
  • #3 Unleash your inner flirt 😏
  • #4 Entwine those fingers ✋
  • #5 Sweet nothings in her ear 🍯👂
  • #6 Stretch with strategy
  • #7 Understand her groove 🔥

Follow these seven steps and I can guarantee you, you can get any girl wet.

#1 Get cozy and close 🛋️

Here’s the deal: proximity matters if you want to get your girl horny.

To give you an example, I had this one time when I tried showing my girlfriend a message at a baseball match, and we ended up in a deep conversation. 

It wasn’t the message, it was the closeness. 

Show her an interesting TikTok, maybe something spicy or controversial. But, and here’s the trick, sit close. Like, reaaaaally close.

Not in a creepy way, but in an “Oops! We’re touching arms” kind of way. 

Ensure the touch is natural. If your thighs or arms are grazing each other even slightly, that’s gold. 

No memes, though! You don’t want her to laugh and break that electric connection.

And guys, here’s a pro tip:

Even if there’s a lot of space, start sitting a bit away from her and then, as you show her something on your phone, inch a little closer.

The trick is making the connection seem unintentional but electric. You’ll notice that making eye contact is 100 times more powerful when you are sitting close, so use that to your advantage.
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#2 Capture her curiosity 🧠

cinematic drawing of two people on a date talking

Next up, you’ve got to be Mr. Interesting. And not just “I once ate a bug” interesting but deep, emotional, and genuinely engaging. 

Here’s a trick I often use: tell your girlfriend a little secret of yours. 

Everyone loves secrets, right? 🤫 

It doesn’t have to be the nuclear launch codes you got from hacking the government, it can just be something silly like:

“Back in high school, I used to wear mismatched socks just to see if anyone would notice. Spoiler: they never did.”

Now a lot of experts will tell you that it is not good to use humor if you want to build sexual tension. I disagree. You can use humor at this stage since you want to get her used to your touch.
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If you’re in the middle of a profound conversation, she won’t even notice that you’re sitting so close. And it makes the touching feel all the more natural. 

Since she’s already your girlfriend, I assume she’s used to your touch. If not, be careful, if she pulls back, it’s a sign. Take a step back, mate, and work on the connection before moving forward with building sexual desire.

#3 Unleash your inner flirt 😏

So now you’ve set the stage, it’s showtime. Start by dropping some discreet compliments. Tell her she smells nice or that her eyes sparkle when she’s close. These little things? They can light up the room. 

The trick here is to be subtle. You don’t want to come on too strong with “You are so pretty I want to f*ck you”. That’s just too much… If you’ve had some flirty exchanges in the past, bring them up. Remind her of those moments when the air was thick with electricity.

As I mentioned before, eye contact is an extremely important thing if you want to make a girl horny. When you flirt with her, make eye contact and smile.

Women are more emotional than men so if you can bring back the sexual attraction she experienced in the past she is more likely to experience that again.

Pro Tip:

Always be authentic. A woman will get the same compliments over and over again

If you say something like

You have got such an amazing smell”

you will be way more authentic than when you say

“You look nice”.

#4 Entwine those fingers ✋

couple holding hands

Ah, fingers – nature’s little seduction tools. I remember when I tried to impress a date by pretending I knew palmistry. Well, let’s just say I’m still waiting for that second date. 😅 

Don’t let that discourage you.

Action Plan: 

Find a playful excuse to touch her fingers. Maybe you want to compare hand sizes, or perhaps there’s a unique texture on her ring you’re “curious” about. 

When you touch her hand, be gentle. Compliment her fingers, say how soft they are, and tease her with “You got baby hands,” and if you’re daring like me, even try the old “I can read palms” trick (trust me, it’s funnier when it doesn’t work). 

Another thing you can do is to gently tickle her as payback because she playfully insulted you.

The key is to make her aware of your touch but in a light, teasing way. 

#5 Sweet nothings in her ear 🍯👂

If I had a dollar for every time someone said, “Talk dirty to me,” I’d probably have… well, not a lot, but you get the point. There’s power in whispered words.

Action Plan: Find the right time, preferably when others are around but preoccupied. Get close, but don’t tickle her with your beard (unless she’s into that). Whisper something in her ear like;

“I wish there weren’t so many people around us”

And, if you’re feeling bolder, tell her she smells intoxicating. The key? It’s all about making her feel desired. Keep it sultry and sweet. If you want to learn more about dirty talk sign up for Menprovement X. 👇🏼

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#6 Stretch with strategy

My buddy once tried this move but ended up knocking over a vase. The lesson? Execution is everything. 😂

Action Plan:

Look for something, an object perhaps, that’s past her. As you reach out, let your arm or shoulder subtly brush against her breast or her thigh. Make it seem accidental. The look you’re going for is: “Oh, did I do that?” not “Oops, I did it again.” 

This will get your girl horny and will build some serious sexual tension since she is wondering “Did he do that on purpose?!”

#7 Understand her groove

Getting a woman horny and understanding her mind might seem like decoding the Da Vinci Code, but most women have clear signs. And let me tell you, when you learn to read them, it’s like you’ve unlocked a superpower.

Action Plan:

As you escalate the teasing and touching, pay attention to her reactions. Does she lean in? Does she playfully hit you when you’re being cheeky? These are golden signals, my friend. If she responds by getting closer, speaking in hushed tones, or touching you back, then bingo! 

You’ve lit the fire of desire.

From here you can lean in and start kissing her. The trick is to kiss her when the sexual tension is at a peak. You will unleash a wave of dopamine and she will be even more horny.

So How does Sexual chemistry work?

Sexual chemistry

I remember back in college, I had this buddy, Jake. Now, Jake was no Ryan Gosling, but when he walked into a room, the atmosphere shifted. 

Why? 

Sexual chemistry. And it’s more than just about physical attraction. It’s that real-life magic trick where a woman’s body parts and her mind come together in a beautiful dance of desire. It’s the electric charge in the air, a mix of deep feelings and subtle cues.

Think about the last time you locked eyes with a woman, and it felt like a magnet pulled you two together. That’s your girl’s sex drive getting a supercharge. And yours too. But here’s the thing – for a sexual relationship to truly thrive, it’s crucial to make the woman feel desired, not just lusted after. It’s the difference between a one-hit wonder and a classic album.

But, just as there are accelerators, there are also sexual brakes. Imagine cruising on a highway and suddenly spotting a speed bump – you slow down, right? 

Similarly, pressures, insecurities, or past experiences can be these “brakes” in a woman’s mind. That’s why the most important thing is to focus on building the connection and sexual tension before making any moves.

This will not only make the woman like you, but will build trust so she’ll put her guard down, and you will have a much higher success rate.

Wrapping Up

Alright, gents, you’ve now got the blueprint on how to ramp up that desire. But remember, this journey of understanding and connection doesn’t stop here.

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We’ve crafted a hands-on course that’ll not only teach you how to get your girlfriend horny but also unlock the secrets to make her squirt

Don’t just be good; be unforgettable.

Cheers. 🥂

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Build trust, ensure she’s comfortable, and build sexual tension.

Ensure a relaxed environment, prioritize her comfort, communicate openly about preferences, and build sexual tension.

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