6 Fun Ways To Sexually Satisfy Your Woman In Bed

6 Fun Ways To Sexually Satisfy Your Woman In Bed

6 Fun Ways To Sexually Satisfy Your Woman In Bed

how to satisfy a woman in bed

This is an article written by Christine D. from our “From Her” series, where the women we want give us a peek inside their minds.

If you’re reading this, you obviously have her at the pivotal point where she’s ready to rip off your clothes and mount you like the stallion you are.

However, you need to keep in mind that sex isn’t just about you – whether you want to believe it or not. She wants to get satisfaction out of it as well, and if you don’t deliver, you might not get to ravage her again.

1) Poking and Hoping

Don’t just poke and hope.

Fellas, this is one time, you may just want to ask for directions. The g-spot is located about two inches inside of her vagina toward the front (toward her stomach). Try modified missionary position to touch her in the right spot. And don’t worry, you’ll enjoy this position as well.

By placing a pillow under her booty and putting her legs straight in the air, you’ll discover what makes her claw at your back.

Spooning is another one that is simple, yet highly orgasmic for both of you. You begin with both of you lying on your sides, with you in the back. With some simple thrusting, you can rock the boat – actually her entire world – in this position.

3) Going Down

Do treat her every now and then, guys! This is especially the case if you want her to reciprocate the gesture. Try to surprise her with it – and even if you don’t like it, fake it!

2) Her Clit

This is an important part of the puzzle on how to make her scream your name. Most women can’t get off without a little bit of touch or lick on their clit. Don’t go overboard though. She doesn’t want to feel like a dog lapping up water is pleasuring her.

Feel free to try different moves such as up and down and round and round with your fingers or your tongue.

4) Turn Her on Before the Bedroom

For many women, sex isn’t just about sex. She wants to be romanced, wined, dined, surprised, and loved, even if you’ve been together for a while. Nice gestures may not make her panties went instantly, but they will start setting the foundation for getting to see her naked.

5) Give Her Variety

If you’re trying to satisfy her the same way each time, she’ll get bored easily. That means you just might find yourself in a rut.

Whether you have to try it in a different place, bring out some new moves, take her somewhere exciting and romantic, or buy some adult toys, make sure you’re not letting your love life get routine.

It would also be a bonus if you can fulfill her sexual fantasies. If she wants to have a threesome someday, you can use a Lovegasm dildo during sex to make her feel like she is in the devil’s triangle.

6) Ask Her

She’s not going to think you’re pathetic, bro, just because you ask her what she likes. In fact, she’ll appreciate it.

It shows you care enough about making sex pleasurable for her and you care enough about her in general. Don’t make it a random conversation or dinner conversation though. Try when you’re laying in bed together or when you’re going at it (but make it sound sexy, so it’s not a mood killer).

In conclusion

Although this seems like a lot to remember, it will be worth it for you. Your pleasure is directly connected to how she feels. And trust me, if you’re not giving it to her how she likes it, she’s not going to want to give it to you at all.

– Christine D.

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75 thoughts on “6 Fun Ways To Sexually Satisfy Your Woman In Bed”

  1. I’m a lady and I second everything on this list 🙂 I might add just one thing though: make your girl feel comfortable to talk to you about her fantasies/react appropriately when she brings up something she wants to try/remember that something for the next time. (I guess that was really more than one thing, haha).
    I was with someone and I mentioned that I wanted to try different sex positions. He said okay, we can do that and then made me feel bad/lectured me for wanting to try something new. We ended up never trying any new positions (b/c I felt too bad to ever bring it up again) and that was really the last time I tried telling him what I wanted sexually. When your lady mentions wanting to try something, it is in no way an attack on your abilities/desires…just her way of incorporating her own desires into the bedroom.

    • Sounds pretty basic unhh? But surprisingly a lot of guys forget to do this. Before and during foreplay whisper into your woman’s ear telling her how beautiful and sexy she is when naked. Also tell her what you would do to her during the sex act. Tell her everything in details in a cool and sexy deep baritone voice. And make sure you do everything you said you would do!
      When you do this, you would put her in the right mood for sexual intercourse. This would definitely make her vagina ready to receive your penis. Women love it when their lovers take charge in bed, so make sure you are sitting comfortable in the driver’s seat during sexual intercourse. Tell your woman what she needs to do so that she can get more pleasure in bed!

  2. I love your e counsel man . but what of in a case whereby a man can neither experience erection or maintain it, how does he satisfy his partner? what is the panacea to that? Thanks

    • That is a whole mother issue and needs to be addressed separately You need to figure out what is causing your ED before you can satisfy anyone, even yourself.
      Do you watch too much porn? Are you experiencing sexual anxiety? Or is it a medical thing.
      All these questions need to be taken into effect.
      Some useful articles we have now: 26 natural aphrodisiacs for men & Tongkat Ali Extract. Have a read. But we will be writing more about how to cure ED in the future. Subscribe and you won’t miss it.

      • i am read this article about women.
        satisfaction. i like it.
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  3. I believe this article will help many men improve 2 things;
    1. Man’s self confidence
    2. Quality of relationship

  4. This is a great little article but I also think (coming from a woman) that you need to have some tips for guys on how to talk to a woman in the bedroom. It is important for men to realize that sometimes we bring our emotions into the bedroom and we need to be spoken to in a way that says that men understand that. Not always, sometimes a little pillow talk is nice, but bringing in the emotional side to the pillow talk can make us want to take you to all new heights in the bedroom.

    • you r ri8,tht men bring emotions into the bedroom, bt women to do the same thing… one thing is different between men n women is when they both come on bed together, after a few minutes men forget their emotions and tries to pleasure their wife/GF, bt women never forget their emotions till the ni8 is over,,, and leave themselves and their partner unhappy and unsatisfied…. see i’m not saying tht sex is everything if you need to have a good relationship,,, bt it is a part of a human nature which not only makes u feel happy bt relaxes too…

  5. great article bro, but realy i am
    still single but i wish to mary
    soon so could u plz help me how
    star sexy with vergin girls of their
    first night i think that is an
    interesting topic

  6. ahhh love this articleeee!!! really appreciate the advice. I’ve been looking for some quick reminders lately. You touched on alot. TBH this is exactly why I’ve
    worked to become an amazing lay, wanted to give my girl everything.
    Truthfully this sucks for me as it tkes me like 45 minutes to finish now.
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  7. Aw, this was an incredibly nice post. Taking a few minutes and actual effort to generate
    a superb article… but what can I say… I hesitate a whole lot
    and don’t manage to get anything done.

    • kwadwo, before u have ta carry some research about the woman you era going to marry if she is also virgin if is not then that is a tag of war. Any way sex is like eating. The moment you put food or breast in babies mouth he or she just begin chewing.So just be strong you will do it.

  8. Hello people thanks for the advise, Uganda most men knows what is called playing sex but we are facing a problem especially in women who are in family planning methods THEY LOOS APETITE IN BED
    The woman can love you with all her hearts but eeeeeh,
    other wise we are badly off.

    • Honestly i love dis tips s vry fantastic & important,pls i want 2 ask if women sperm(semen) s gud 4 men system? bcuz my Gf alwys ask me 2 suck her private part

  9. Hey, i always satisfy my lady without applying what I read hear but my queez is why is she doesn’t have a clit? And she always complaining that it’s to painful when i fuck her like four shots?

  10. Comment:your suggestions are helpful and reasonable as i went through them.
    Keep giving those types of suggestions as i am saying it from the experience,i tried this process and my girlfriend gave me positive feedback about my perfomance in bed.Thanks very much.

  11. I cumed first and I couldn’t satisfy her. I’ve always been too fast in bed. I have done kegels, slow masturbation and all the other techniques with zero effect really. I’ve tried V**gra before and chit worked for me. But this med is not special for PE. Actually i use “Extra Super Vlagra” it also contains Dapoxetine wich is used as a treatment for premature ejaculation. It’s been a very nice experience. I last longer on it and my wife was really in shock. It works by extending the time of sexual intercourse (no numbness). Now she can cum as many times as she wants.

  12. For me the be biggest transformation happened when I learned to really arouse and tease my girl.
    Did you know that women’s biggest erogenous zone is her brain? yep.
    So instead of seduction tricks..if you would just play and create an expectation that she looks forward for the whole day – oh, man, it made such a difference!
    And then the next thing – not touching erogenous zones immediately, but really taking time with featherlight touch around the body…and then SLOWLY zoning in…


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