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This is How To Please A Woman In Bed (from a woman)

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If you’re reading this, you obviously have her at the pivotal point where she’s ready to rip off your clothes and mount you like the stallion you are.

However, you need to keep in mind that sex isn’t just about your fantasies – whether you want to believe it or not.
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She wants to get satisfaction out of it as well, and if you don’t deliver, you might not get to ravage her again. Don’t worry though, I am going to teach you exactly how to please a woman in bed.

key takeaways

  • Asking a woman what she likes is the simplest way to sexually satisfy her.
  • Using a mirror and dry humping are a MASSIVE turn on.
  • Pay more attention to foreplay – you can even start the foreplay with sexting.

If you want to know how to please your woman sexually you have to make sure she actually wants to have sex! Use these tips to get the spark back into your relationship if your wife isn’t interested in sex anymore

#1 Poking and Hoping

Don’t just poke and hope.

Fellas, this is one time, you may just want to ask for directions. Here’s a quick sex lesson:

Pro Tip:

The g-spot is located about two inches inside of her vagina toward the front (toward her stomach). 

Female anatomy; the g spot

Try modified missionary position to touch her in the right spot. And don’t worry, you’ll enjoy this position as well. 👇🏼

Modified missionary position
infographic explaining how to stimulate the g spot during sex

By placing a pillow under her booty and putting her legs straight in the air, you’ll discover what makes her claw at your back.

Spooning is another one that is simple, yet highly orgasmic for both of you. You begin with both of you lying on your sides, with you in the back. With some simple thrusting, you can rock the boat – actually her entire world – in this position. 👇🏼

Spooning sex position

#2 Going Down

Do treat her every now and then, guys! This is especially the case if you want her to reciprocate the gesture. Try to surprise her with it – and even if you don’t like it, fake it!

Oral sex is something that a lot of guys don’t think they will enjoy, but once they do it – they can’t get enough and wished they have used this earlier in their sex life.

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#3 Her Clit

Clitorus location

This is an important part of the puzzle on how to make her scream your name. Most women can’t get off without a little bit of touch or lick on their clit.

Don’t go overboard though. She doesn’t want to feel like a dog lapping up water is pleasuring her.

Feel free to try different moves such as up and down and round and round with your fingers or your tongue.

#4 Turn Her on Before the Bedroom

For many women, sex isn’t just about sex. She wants to be romanced, wined, dined, surprised, and loved, even if you’ve been together for a while. Nice gestures may not make her panties went instantly, but they will start setting the foundation for getting to see her naked.

#5 Give Her Variety

If you’re trying to satisfy her the same way each time, she’ll get bored easily. That means you just might find yourself in a rut.

I highly recommened steering clear of doggy style! I know I know, Doggy Style is sexy and has by far the best view but it is extremely hard to for us to get an orgasm and science backs it up.1 👇🏼

Screenshot of scientific Research on the best sex position

You might want to try missionary with a pillow under her back like they mentioned in the research above.

Whether you have to try it in a different place, bring out some new moves, take her somewhere exciting and romantic, or buy some adult toys, whatever. If you want to have a healthy sex life make sure you’re not letting it become routine.

It would also be a bonus if you can fulfill her sexual fantasies. If she wants to have a threesome someday, you can use a Lovegasm dildo during sex to make her feel like she is in the devil’s triangle.
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#6 Ask Her What She Likes

She’s not going to think you’re pathetic, dude, just because you ask her what she likes. In fact, she’ll appreciate it.

It shows you care enough about making sex pleasurable for her and you care enough about her in general. Don’t make it a random conversation or dinner conversation though.

Pro Tip:

Try when you’re laying in bed together or when you’re going at it (but make it sound sexy, so it’s not a mood killer).

#7 Quickie Sex

Quickie sex is the unsung hero of female pleasure, a thrilling escapade that delivers maximum ecstasy with minimum fuss.

When you are short on time, random quick sex ignite sparks. 🔥
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It makes us women feel sexually alive and feel cherised. It’s a spontaneous burst of passion, a tantalizing teaser that offers immense sexual pleasure in a compact, exhilarating package.

Quick sex does demand your A-game; you need to focus more on intensity and skip most of the foreplay.

#8 Dry Humping

Remember dry humping?

It’s more than a nostalgic memory from your teen years; it’s a secret weapon for female arousal and sexual pleasure.

scientific Fact:

Research suggests that the friction and pressure provided by dry humping can intensely stimulate the clitoris and may result in a female orgasm.2

Fucking with clothed bodies is comparable to an erotic massage, filled with sensual rhythms and intimate connection, awakening every nerve with anticipation and desire.

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#9 Use A mirror

Ever considered bringing a mirror into your bedroom?3

Watching yourselves during a sexual encounter is MEGA arousing.

scientific Fact:

Studies suggest that visual stimuli play a crucial role in sexual arousal, and seeing your acts of passion in real-time can be a huge turn on.4

A lot of sex therapists I spoke to recommended using a mirror since you can easily spot if a women likes what you are doing or not..👇🏼

A mirror allows for immediate feedback; observing her facial expressions and body language can guide you in understanding what truly pleases a woman.

Dr. Jenna Smith | Sex Therapist at Better Help

Is she moaning when you tried that new position? Does she bite her lip whe you kissed her in her neck? these are usually things you might miss when you are not using a mirror.

#10 Play A sexy Game

Strip poker

Who says games are for kids? There are certain games that amplify female pleasure. Playing sexy games not only is… sexy. It also allows you to try various sexual positions you otherwise would never have done.

  • Truth or Dare: With a naughty twist, turn the innocent game into an evening of revelations and sexy dares.
  • Strip Poker: A classic that never fails, leading to exciting moments and maybe new sexual positions.
  • Role-Playing: Make your sexual fantasies come true and step into characters that lead to unexpected and pleasure scenes.
  • Dice Games: There are custom erotic dices that helps you and your partner through a sequence of seductive actions and hot zones. 🔥

Another thing I recommend is sexual role play. You don’t need to be the next Daniel Craig, just something as simple as a student who gets detention will turn most women on.

#11 Give Your Woman A Striptease

A striptease isn’t just good for her; it’ll boost her entire sexual experience. When you seductively shed your threads, revealing yourself piece by piece, you’re not just offering a visual feast and good sex, but sexual intimacy.

You’re stoking the fires of desire, promising good sex that’s not just physical but intimate. It is no fact that we women LOVE foreplay, and a striptease is like looong foreplay on steroids.
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#12 Sext throughout the day

tongue emoji

This kind of ties back to what I said earlier – we WANT foreplay as much as we want attention. There is nothing as sexy as receiving a message from my boyfriend telling me how much he wants me..

It doesn’t have to be complicated though, something as simple as:

Can’t wait for you to get home 😏


I just can’t concetrate today. The thought of having you in my arms is making me crazy…

And if you want to skip the dirty talk and go more towards aggresive sexting (in a hot way) you can say something like.

I can’t wait for you to get home so I can pin you against the wall and kiss you all over your body.

There isn’t really a good or wrong here – you’ll need to experiment and see what works best for you.

To Sum It Up

Although this seems like a lot to remember, it will be worth it for you. Your sexual pleasure is directly connected to that extend you are able to pleasure your woman sexually.

And trust me, if you’re not giving it to her how she likes it, she’s not going to want to give it to you at all.

– Christine D.


  1. Hale, T. (2022b, July 12). The position most likely to make women orgasm, according to a new study. IFLScience. ↩︎
  2. Villines, Z. (2023, September 18). What to know about dry humping. ↩︎
  3. Ashley, B. (2023, July 13). Mirror sex: what is it and how do you have it? Mashable. ↩︎
  4. Rupp, H. A., & Wallen, K. (2007). Sex Differences in response to Visual Sexual Stimuli: A review. Archives of Sexual Behavior, 37(2), 206–218. ↩︎

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