This is an article written by Christine D. from our “From Her” series, where the women we want give us a peek inside their minds.
If you’re reading this, you obviously have her at the pivotal point where she’s ready to rip off your clothes and mount you like the stallion you are.
However, you need to keep in mind that sex isn’t just about you – whether you want to believe it or not. She wants to get satisfaction out of it as well, and if you don’t deliver, you might not get to ravage her again.
1) Poking and Hoping
Don’t just poke and hope.
Fellas, this is one time, you may just want to ask for directions. The g-spot is located about two inches inside of her vagina toward the front (toward her stomach). Try modified missionary position to touch her in the right spot. And don’t worry, you’ll enjoy this position as well.
By placing a pillow under her booty and putting her legs straight in the air, you’ll discover what makes her claw at your back.
Spooning is another one that is simple, yet highly orgasmic for both of you. You begin with both of you lying on your sides, with you in the back. With some simple thrusting, you can rock the boat – actually her entire world – in this position.
3) Going Down
Do treat her every now and then, guys! This is especially the case if you want her to reciprocate the gesture. Try to surprise her with it – and even if you don’t like it, fake it!
2) Her Clit
This is an important part of the puzzle on how to make her scream your name. Most women can’t get off without a little bit of touch or lick on their clit. Don’t go overboard though. She doesn’t want to feel like a dog lapping up water is pleasuring her.
Feel free to try different moves such as up and down and round and round with your fingers or your tongue.
4) Turn Her on Before the Bedroom
For many women, sex isn’t just about sex. She wants to be romanced, wined, dined, surprised, and loved, even if you’ve been together for a while. Nice gestures may not make her panties went instantly, but they will start setting the foundation for getting to see her naked.
5) Give Her Variety
If you’re trying to satisfy her the same way each time, she’ll get bored easily. That means you just might find yourself in a rut.
Whether you have to try it in a different place, bring out some new moves, take her somewhere exciting and romantic, or buy some adult toys, make sure you’re not letting your love life get routine.
It would also be a bonus if you can fulfill her sexual fantasies. If she wants to have a threesome someday, you can use a Lovegasm dildo during sex to make her feel like she is in the devil’s triangle.
6) Ask Her
She’s not going to think you’re pathetic, bro, just because you ask her what she likes. In fact, she’ll appreciate it.
It shows you care enough about making sex pleasurable for her and you care enough about her in general. Don’t make it a random conversation or dinner conversation though. Try when you’re laying in bed together or when you’re going at it (but make it sound sexy, so it’s not a mood killer).
Although this seems like a lot to remember, it will be worth it for you. Your pleasure is directly connected to how she feels. And trust me, if you’re not giving it to her how she likes it, she’s not going to want to give it to you at all.
– Christine D.