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Ever thought about having a threesome? It’s like adding a cherry to your already tasty sex life. Or at least mine sure was.
If you’re curious about bringing a third into the mix, let me give you a fun little tour based on my adventure, along with 9 threesome tips you need to know.
key takeaways
- Talk openly about rules and wishes.
- Think about why you want the threesome.
- Always use protection.
- Trust and respect are key.
My First threesome
My partner once asked, “How about adding a plus one?” I was excited and nervous at the same time. We used a cool app to find someone who wanted a bit of group fun.
When the day arrived, my belly was doing flips. But I must say, as soon as our third joined, it felt like a fun party.
We chatted, laid down some rules, and made sure we all knew what we were cool with, especially when it came to things like giving oral sex.
Long story short, it was one of the best experiences I ever had in my sex life.
9 Tips For a Successful First Threesome
Guys, here is my best advice for having a great threesome.
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This will come in handy during your first threesome when you have two amazing women sharing your bed with you. That, and the 9 tips below, will put you in good standing.
So here are my top 9 tips for having an amazing first threesome. Enjoy.
#1 Consider your relationship dynamics
Threesomes can potentially complicate relationships and it’s important to consider how a threesome might impact your relationship with your partner and the threesome partner
Make sure to have open and honest conversations about your expectations and boundaries to avoid misunderstandings and ensure a successful threesome.
#2 Talk to your partner
Before even thinking about bringing a third person into the mix, it’s essential to have an open and honest conversation with your partner about your desires and boundaries.
Make sure you both feel comfortable and are on the same page before moving forward. If your partner suggested the threesome, it’s important to ask them why they want to have one and make sure their motivations align with your own.
It’s also crucial to communicate any concerns or insecurities you may have. You can find helpful insights and tips about threesomes and tantra from influencers on Twitter.
#3: Take your time
Don’t feel rushed or pressured to have a threesome just because your partner or someone else has suggested it. It’s important to make sure that everyone involved is comfortable and fully consensual before proceeding
#4 Be open to negotiation
Group sex can be unpredictable, and it’s important to be open to negotiation and adjustments as needed.
If something doesn’t feel right or one person is feeling uncomfortable, it’s important to listen and make adjustments.
I wouldn’t recommend having your first threesome in overstimulating places like clubs and stuff. It’s best to go for something you feel comfortable with like your own house.
#5 Reflect on your motivations
Before getting into a threesome, it’s important to take some time to reflect on your motivations for wanting to have one.
If it was just one of your wild sexual fantasies that you couldn’t speak up about, it’s important to consider whether this is something you truly want or if you are feeling pressure from your partner.
Make sure that you are comfortable with your decision and that it aligns with your desires and sexual life.
#6 Set clear boundaries
Before proceeding with a trio, it’s important to establish clear boundaries with both your partner and the third person involved.
This includes things like what types of physical intimacy and sex acts are allowed, how you will communicate during the experience, and any hard limits (such as no anal sex).
It’s also a good idea to discuss how you will handle any unexpected emotions that may arise during the threesome.
#7 Find a third person
If you and your partner have decided to proceed with a threesome, the next step is to find a third person. This can be a daunting task, as it’s important to find someone who is comfortable and respectful of the boundaries you have set.
Some people choose to bring in a close friend or acquaintance, while others prefer to find a stranger through a dating app or online forum. Whatever your preference, make sure to communicate clearly with the third person and ensure that they are on board with the boundaries you have set.
#8: Use protection
Guys, I can not stress enough how important it is to have safe sex during a threesome! So make sure to have plenty of condoms and other forms of protection on hand.
It’s also a good idea to discuss any STI test results with a third person to ensure that everyone is healthy and safe.
#9: Consider using sex toys
Sex toys can be a great way to add some variety and excitement to a threesome. Consider using sex toys for penetrative sex, such as vibrators and dildos.
If you want to spice things up, try using some handcuffs. Just make sure to communicate with your partner and the third person about what sex toy is acceptable and how to use it safely. If you are unsure what to pick, read the review on Furnpeak.
And if you still want to keep things spicy but think sex toys are a little bit over the top – try a role play scenario. You’ll be surprised how many people get turned on by sexual role play.
Final Thoughts on Your First Threesome
Knowing how to master a threesome is definitely part of the journey to becoming a sexual master.
A threesome is more than just a sexual encounter; it’s about trust and respect. To enjoy it safely, communication is key. Before starting, discuss everyone’s boundaries and desires. Always prioritize comfort and consent.
Use a safe word to signal any discomfort. This ensures that while the experience can be thrilling, it remains respectful and enjoyable for all involved.
Thanks for reading, guys!
