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How to Eat Pussy Like a GOD (with Video Examples)

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Today we are diving deep into… HOW TO EAT PUSSY.

Okay, I won’t tell you to stick your tongue all the way in. That might not be your thing, which I totally understand. Nevertheless, I want to use this article to talk about a topic that 99% of guys claim to know how to eat pussy while they actually suck at it.

How do I know?

I was one of them and I have learned to properly eat pussy from a few amazing women who all shared this one tiny secret with me that most men hate to admit: Most men suck at pussy eating!

key takeaways

  • Make her feel comfortable before starting oral sex.
  • Show love to her whole body, not just her vagina.
  • Use both your tongue and fingers for maximum pleasure.
  • Find her G-spot and focus on the moment for the best orgasm.

so why do most men suck at pussy Eating?!

Oral sex

According to countless conversations with women, I slept with, with women who have friend-zoned me, and with women who I asked an inappropriate questions, such as

“Does he lick you good?”

Before they could even friend-zone me, I know that this is true. There are basically two reasons why men suck at this one endeavor that women love so much (believe it or not, but women love it as much as you love blowjobs)

  • Reason #1: Men all over the world don’t do it because they think that it’s not a big deal for women.
  • Reason #2: Men all over the world are scared to do it because they have no idea what they are doing.  
Well, it actually is a big deal and a lot of women would do anything to date a man who is good at something that millions of other men are terrible at. And yeah, I also totally understand why most men are so paranoid when it comes to the good old tongue-on pussy game.
Sean Russell
Founder, CEO | Menprovement

You don’t learn that shit in high school and I also doubt that your dad took you aside with a cupcake and said

“Look, son, that’s how you eat pussy. Your mother loves it the way I do.”

At least I hope that he never did that. The good news is that you can learn to lose your fear and you can also learn to get good at it. Just like guys who suffer from approach anxiety can learn to approach women, you can learn how to eat pussy like a god.

Today I want to help you to overcome your fear of eating pussy and finally learn how to make women come with nothing but your tongue so you can be one step closer to sexual mastery.

How to Eat Pussy: preperation

Alright guys, let’s break down the 9 steps you need to learn in order to know how to eat pussy better than anyone she’s ever been with.

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#1 Chill and make her feel comfortable

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Your pulse is racing, and your brain is spinning with doubts. Is her taste going to put you off? Is she going to enjoy it? More often than not, these worries are baseless. So, take a breather!

The first step in developing great oral sex skills is to make sure she’s relaxed. She needs to be comfortable and in the mood. Remember, you won’t make her feel good if you’re as tense as a high schooler before a big test. Deep breaths, friend! Start off by giving her a gentle, soothing massage.

Trust me, this is your shortcut to making things a lot smoother.

Tip from flip: I highly recommend buying a milking massage table. I know you don’t hear that often but there are a bazillion benefits of giving a massage on one of these beasts and are a giant turn-o.

#2 It’s Not All About The Pussy

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Ready, pussy, go! That’s not how it works.

Now, this might come as a shocker but oral sex, or properly eating pussy, isn’t just a mad dash to her vagina. Sure, she’s excited for you to pleasure her down there, but she also wants you to cherish her entirely, not just the area around her vaginal opening.

She wants to see that you’re thinking “what a gorgeous woman”, instead of just “what a beautiful vagina.”
Sean Russell
Founder, CEO | Menprovement

Prove this to her by taking your time. Start with a passionate kiss, caress her body, and lay kisses all the way down to her inner thighs before you reach her intimate area.

#3 Take Her Panties Off

After you’ve kissed and caressed her from her lips to her inner thighs, it’s time to take off her panties. Be patient, and tell her just how attractive she is. This is a crucial moment in the journey of eating pussy.

You see, a lot of women carry insecurities about their private parts. While you’re eager to explore her vaginal opening, they might worry about how they smell or look down there.
Sean russell
Founder, CEO | Menprovement

Just like anyone else, women have their own worries.1 Make her feel at ease. Assure her she has no reason to fret.

Pro Tip:

if you’re ready to take things up a notch, introduce either sex toys or roleplay into your game. This can take your pussy eating skills from good to fantastic.

Women are just normal human beings with normal insecurities. Give her the feeling that there is nothing she has to worry about.

#4 Kiss The Area Around Her Vagina

Infographic of the female anatomy

I get it, buddy, you’re raring to go down there and get your oral sex game on. But hold up! It’s not time to properly eat her pussy just yet.

Trust me, anticipation is a game-changer in oral sex skills. She knows what you’re after, and she’s excited about it too. But she’ll enjoy it even more when you flirt a bit before diving in.

Begin by kissing around her vagina, making a trail along her inner thighs. Give her that cheeky smile and look her in the eye while you’re at it. This will drive her nuts, man! The fire in her eyes and the moans escaping her lips will say it all – she’s dying for your lips to touch her lady parts.

How to Eat Pussy Like A boss

You know what they say; a good preperation is 50% of the work. Nothing is less true when it comes knowing how to lick pussy.

After you’ve taken a detour kissing her inner thighs and the area around her pussy, get ready to take the next step. Look her in the eyes once more before you begin the oral adventure.

Ask if she’s ready for what’s coming. I bet you’ll get a hot “yes” or a naughty smile followed by a nod. Now it’s time to move on to the main event.

method 1: The Pancake

Now I am a man of simplicity and I can teach you all kind of complicated techniques but for the sake of you being a newbie, I am just going to give you the easiest one. Believe me, EVERY guy can do the pancake and in my opinion, it is the best way to eat pussy.

Step 1: Make your tongue flat

pancake tongue technique

Make your tongue flat, and when I say flat I mean 100% relaxed. You shouldn’t move any muscles in your tongue and make it as wide as possible (hence the name).

Step 2: Move your Tongue upwards

explaining how to eat pussy on a doll

Use lots of saliva and press your tongue on the base of your woman’s pussy. Move your head up so that your tongue runs from the bottom of her pussy and passes over her clitoris.

Don’t just move your tongue. This will become quite tiring and you won’t last nearly long enough to satisfy your woman!

Instead, use your neck muscles to move your head up and down while keeping your tongue relaxed. Your neck muscles are larger and stronger than your tongue, so you’ll be able to last much longer.

the pancake technique

Step 3: Do not go down again

When you reach the top do not go down. Instead, start over from the bottom and lick yourself to the top again and again and again

pancake pussy licking technique

I also recommend you don’t use too much pressure at first. Most women become more aroused over time so it is wise to gradually increase the pressure.

Oh, and while you’re at it, remember to experiment with sex toys if she’s comfortable. They can take your pussy eating game to a whole new level and most women will appreciate it. Trust me on this, champ.
Sean Russell
Founder, CEO | Menprovement

method 2: The Vortex

Sucking is a powerful way to give your woman more pleasure when you eat her pussy! There are two techniques to master; the Vortex and Humming. First we will take a look at the Vortex

The Vortex is an extremely popular technique and there are many variations.

Experiment and see what your woman likes best. When you find out what she likes, stick with it – consistency is key.

Step 1: The “O” Shape

Make a small ‘o’ shape with your lips, a little bit bigger than her clitoris.

making an o shape

Make sure your lips are covered in plenty of saliva. Put your lips over your woman’s clitoris and gently suck on it.

Step 2: Put your Inner lips on her Pussy

Keep an airtight seal and gently suck her clit in your mouth. Vary the suction with a bit of rhythm until you find out what your woman prefers.

humming pussy eating technique

Method 3: Humming

Humming can be extremely pleasurable, it essentially turns your lips into a human vibrator!

Step 1: Suck Her Clitorus

Suck her clit into your mouth and keep it there. Then start humming. This will send vibrations through her clit. You can also massage her clit with your tongue.

Practice Humming on your finger like this:

me practicing humming

Now is she enjoying it? You bet she is! But if you’re still unsure and think she might be thinking about doing the dishes instead of the joy of your attention, let me give you a tip to erase those doubts.

Slide one of your fingers between her labia. Feel her moisture and gently insert a finger into her vaginal opening. If she’s super wet, feel free to add a second finger.
Sean Russell
Founder, CEO | Menprovement

Now you’re ready to combine your finger magic with your pussy eating expertise. While fingering her, bring your tongue into play. This combo can be her ticket to Orgasmville. But, you can amp up the sexual tension even further…

How To Finger Her Ass

Ass fingering is an advanced technique that you should only use after your woman has become very aroused and you’ve been eating her pussy for a while!

Before you finger her ass

There are three things to know:

  • Ass play should never be one of the first things you do. It starts to feel good after your woman is turned on.
  • The anus doesn’t self-lubricate like the vagina, so you must use lube.
  • Never touch your woman with your fingers after you’ve fingered her ass. This can cause a bacterial infection. Stop and clean with antibacterial soap before continuing.

So how do you finger her ass?

There are two techniques for fingering her ass; circling and dipping.

Method 1: Circling

Trace your well-lubricated finger in small circles around the edge of your woman’s ass.

Then apply pressure at the entrance – constant pressure. Let her push against your finger if she wants.

me circling ass on a sex doll

Method 2: Dipping

Place your lubricated finger over her anus.

me performing the dipping ass technique on a sex doll

As she becomes turned on, she’ll push against your finger.

Allow her to push against your finger until it slips inside her ass.

me performing the dipping ass technique on a sex doll part 2

Go up to the first knuckle, then leave it there until she relaxes.

Then use the come hither aka sticking you index finger gently in her ass, motion

This is one of the best ways of stimulating her A Spot and can result in a powerful anal orgasm!

The Extra Level of Pussy Eating

Alright fuck it, let’s dive even deeper.

Bonus Tip #1 Stay Present

Hold up! Don’t get lost in your own pleasure trip. Take a deep breath, be cool, and stay focused. Then pause for a moment and soak in the view.

Appreciate the beauty of what you’re seeing. If you’re feeling adventurous, say out loud what you’re experiencing (believe me, women dig this). At first, it might feel a little awkward, but telling her something like,

“Babe, your pussy tastes amazing…”

Can really turn up the heat. 🔥

Bonus Tip #2 The G-Spot

The G-Spot will be found on the anterior (upper) wall of the vaginal canal. The location might be different for every woman though. For some it will be found just inside the vagina, others will be much deeper, potentially approaching the depth of the cervix.

When your girl is aroused, you can feel it as a spongy area that feels very distinct from the other tissues. To reach this area, slide your fingers up until your second knuckle.

After that, you want to press into this area, and circle your fingers around it or make a “come here” motion with your fingers. Remember, just like before, you want to start slowly and then move faster. While doing so you also want to read her body language and listen to her (warm) breath and follow her rhythm. Make sure you make her have that peaked “female orgasm”.

How to Eat Pussy Video Training

By know you might have noticed that knowing how to eat coochie isn’t something you can learn from porn videos, since that is fake as fuck.

While this is one beast of an article that will definitely make you better at eating coochie than 99% of men, there is a limit to where this article can tak you.

If you want to get to the next level of eating pussy check out our How to eat pussy video training series on Menprovement X.

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9 Game-Changing Pussy Eating Techniques You Need to Try

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Hey, man, we all want to keep things exciting and satisfying in the bedroom. Are you tired of the same old routine when it comes to eating her pussy? Look no further! Here are nine no-nonsense, tried-and-true pussy eating tips and positions that will have her coming back for more.

#1 Crank Up the Pressure

When you’re licking pussy, try focusing on the area right under her clit. Apply some extra pressure with the base of your tongue and hold it there.

Trust me, dude, this small change will add a whole new level to your oral sex skills.
Sean Russell
Founder, CEO | Menprovement

#2 Edge Her to Intense Orgasms

You know the feeling when you’re about to climax, and then—BOOM—you back off? That’s edging, and it can lead to more intense orgasms. You can do this when eating her pussy or even during anal sex.

The trick is to bring her close and then slow down. Do it a few times, and she’ll have one of the most intense orgasms of her life.

#3 Add Some Finger Action

While you’re eating her pussy, don’t be afraid to get your fingers in on the action. Internal and external stimulation at the same time? Yeah, buddy, it’s a game-changer.

#4 Lick and Finger – The Ultimate Combo

Imagine licking her clit and fingering her G Spot at the same time. It’s like hitting the jackpot! Many women go wild for this, so give it a shot.

Your penis size or how long you last in bed won’t even matter if you master this technique.

#5 Suck and Reach Deep

Go for the Wet pussy experience by sucking her clit and massaging the deep part of her vagina. It’s not always the easiest move, but the right tools or techniques can make it a night to remember.

#6 Triple Threat: Clit, G Spot & Ass

Ready to level up? While licking her clitoris and massaging her G Spot, get your other hand involved with her ass. But, be a gentleman and remember not to mix hands – cleanliness is key.

#7 Experiment Like a Pro

Eating her pussy doesn’t have to be one-dimensional. You’ve got hands, so use them! Fingering her, trying different angles – the possibilities are endless.

#8 Take Control or Give It Up

Want to make eating her pussy more thrilling? Introduce some power play. Either tie her up or let her take the reins. It’ll spice things up like you wouldn’t believe.

#9 Team Up for the Win

If she needs a little extra help, let her guide you or add some stimulation herself. Pussy eating can be a team sport, and good communication will lead you to victory.

Wrapping up

A lot of men suck at eating pussy, because they are either afraid to do something wrong or they think that women don’t like it. The truth is that they like it a lot and that there are a few things you can do to make them enjoy it even more.

Once you helped her to relax and to feel comfortable you can slowly get her in the mood by kissing and touching her whole body. After you have taken her panties off and kissed the area around her vagina you can focus on the main dish.

Your fingers can be an excellent help and a simple up and down movement can be enough to make her moan like a maniac. No matter what you do, make sure that you reach her clitoris. Focus on it until you make your girl cum.

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Sources

  1. Sandoval, K. (2021, April 20). Don’t feel insecure if your vagina isn’t fragrant. That’s how it should be, gynecologists say. Business Insider. ↩︎

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